Here is some advice on how to organize a sex date:
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First, you have to discuss this with your partner. Do not present it as a method for solving a problem, but instead present it as a way to make sure you have more quality time together. You both know: once something is written in your agenda (S.D.!), it will happen, and what is not written in an agenda is sometimes forgotten.
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Since you do not want to have a quickie, you should allow at least two hours, for a long shower together, some good sex that is not rushed, and plenty of time for pillow-talk afterwards. So reserve enough time for this.
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Because this is a date, you can talk about the place as well: the house, a motel, a hotel, the back of the car, a deserted beach at night? Use your imagination, there is nothing wrong with the good old bedroom, but don’t feel restricted to go there.
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Special wishes: has it been a long time since you exchanged a good massage? Do you want to use the date to try something new? Do you want some kind of special treatment? Or do you just want a surprise or some spontaneous sex? Discuss it!
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Make sure that if there is any negative tension between the two of you, things are talked out before the sex date. This allows you to use the sex date purely as a sex date. Don’t talk about work, problems, or ordinary things: this is an erotic encounter you both want to enjoy to the full.

At first, a sex date may seem like an odd idea. But since our lives often get busier and busier, it can be a good solution for a lot of people, to have an exciting sex-life together. Once you get used to the idea, it can be a fun and exciting way to meet and mate…