I looked at her like she was crazy. 

About a month ago, I was engaged in a deep conversation with a female "friend" of mine. The topic was what "turns on" women.  My point was a guy should focus on pleasing a woman.  She on the other hand, had the viewpoint that guys should be ONLY concerned with eliminating the behaviors which can "turn-off" a woman.

Well after arguing for half an hour, I realized she had some valid points.  In fact, I came to the conclusion that all guys can learn a lot about what turns off women.  If you can avoid them, you'll take that crucial first step towards pleasing a woman.  And here are the 5 most common sexual things which turn off women. 

1- Bad hygiene

Seriously, women hate when guys smell or have poor hygiene.  Before you even think about hopping in the sack, you should make sure you've showered and don't smell like you've run a marathon.  In addition, it's important to do the proper maintenance actions like shaving, applying deodorant, cleaning your ears and brushing your teeth.

2- Being a poor kisser

Women love guys who can kiss with passion.  The converse is they hate guys who either act too wussy or too aggressive when they kiss.  This means if your kissing skills lack a punch, then you'll probably disgust her.  If you want to turn her on, it's important to find out how to kiss and work hard at applying this technique.

3- Acting like a wimp

The simple truth about sex is women want to be with men who act like MEN.  If you're acting like a wimp in the bedroom, then you're turning her off.  Wussy behavior involves asking her if "she's enjoying herself" or being too afraid to try new things. 

4- Acting too aggressive

Now being too aggressive is just as bad as acting like a wimp.  When you try to push a woman around you'll display disgusting behavior.  If she thinks you're only concerned with your own pleasure, then she won't enjoy sex with you.  While women want men who act confidently, you should NEVER get too aggressive with a woman.

5- Rushing things

Women love the entire process of sex.  To them, the build up and foreplay is as just as important as the main act.  So if you rush through things, you'll probably turn off your woman.  To make a woman enjoy herself, you should take your time and focus on her pleasure.

As I said at the start of the article, there is a lot to be learned about women's sexuality.  If you can eliminate (or never display) the 5 behaviors I list in this article, you'll discover that it's easy to please your woman.